I’ll be adding here some resources that helped us in making our move and settling down in Spain

Forums and info:
http://www.spainexpat.com/ - a great community of helpful, supportive and informative English-speaking expats in Spain, with a wealth of informative info pages and a great forum

Language learning:

Rocket Spanish -  getting great results with this and it’s FAR cheaper than Rosetta Stone! Quicker and cheaper is Synergy Spanish -based on a core vocabulary of 138 words, and aimed at getting you up to basic communication levels FAST
Finally once you’ve mastered the basics, this is fun Streetwise Spanish - learn how to make it sound easy and cool!

Relocating and making the move
This eBook is a good collection of a lot of the information you will need to amass and things to think about - until I write mine this is highly recommended!
Expat life/ connections with home
watch streaming television episodes on demand TV With 3click.tv you don’t need to shell out for a dish on the roof!

Paying the rent:

We both work for www.sarosresearch.com